“The only thing standing between you and your goal is the bullshit story you keep telling yourself as to why you can’t achieve it.”
Why aren’t you successful yet??
An even more important question.
Why the fuck aren’t you working towards your goals?? Why the fuck aren’t you chasing your dreams??
What is the bullshit story you keep telling yourself??
Excuses, excuses, excuses :
Com’on bitch this is 2020, your same old 2016 excuse won’t work now. You’ve been busted. We aren’t fools, we know those aren’t “reasons”… you also know those aren’t “reasons”
We know those are just dumbass lame stories you tell yourself to avoid guilt and to help you sleep at night.
Do you feel personally attacked?? Well, I’m sorry I’ll try to rip off the band-aid a little more gentle next time. But seriously if you feel personally attacked then you gotta change something in your life. You gotta get off your ass and start workin.
I don’t care who are you or where you’re from but I know “what is keeping you from achieving greatness” is total bullshit.
I know that you think your reasons why you aren’t successful are “valid” but guess what?? They’re not. Maybe you don’t have the resources or time yet but what I’m sure of is that there is something that you can do right now to get you closer to your goals. There is one little motherfucken step that you can take today.
What is the fucken next thing you can take today that’ll get you closer to your goals.
Baby, there are a million excuses why you can’t do something. Baby, I know that it seems like you’re stuck and you can’t work around your situation to follow your dreams. Baby, you can work around the situation.
Do you feel like you can’t be a YouTuber because you don’t have a camera?? Bitch, use your phone.
Do you feel like you can’t write because you don’t have a laptop?? Bitch, use your phone.
Do you feel like you can’t be a blogger because you can’t afford to purchase a site?? Bitch, use your phone. Oh, I’m sorry I meant. Bitch, use a free plan like the rest of the peasants.
Feel the fear and do it anyway :
I didn’t know I was supposed to babysit adults who are scared to go after what they want but since the job is here I can’t turn it down.
Dove Cameron while playing the role of Liv on Liv and Maddie once said, “if your dreams don’t scare you then you’re not dreaming big enough.”
I’m a Disney fan okay, get over it!!
You are not an asshole for being scared of failure or success or both but letting that be the reason why you’re still the struggling graduate who is afraid of looking for a job or following their dreams makes you a dick.
We all get sometimes get scared but if we let fear drive our lives then we would never go anyway because fear is a really bad driver, I mean the worst driver ever.
Feel the fear and do it anyway!!
You are not that special :
“I am unique…but then so is everybody else.”
Geez!! What a bummer. So, I’m not special??
This may be a very hard pill to swallow especially after I’ve told you many times that you are really special but truth is, you are not.
Your problems are not so unique. I’m not trying to invalid your problems or anything but “not having enough money” is not something special that is only happening to you. You can’t boast about that or say that the “reason” you are not going after your dreams is because you don’t have enough money.
There are millions if not billions of reasons why you aren’t achieving your goals but there are always ways to go after your dreams.
Don’t be one of those people who complain about their circumstance but do absolutely nothing to change it. Don’t be those people who shrug their shoulders and say “well, there’s nothing I can do about it”
Stop making excuses and just get off your ass and do it already.
We’re all just people doing our best with what we’ve got.
I’mma leave you with this :
“Don’t downgrade your dreams to fit your reality, instead upgrade your conviction to match your destiny.”