My life is changing and I have evolved for the better. Thanks to some difficulties and some observations in my life I have learnt the lessons that I am going to share today. There is no such thing as failure, right?? There are only lessons, right??

I Recently Learnt :

1. To trust my intuition :

I have never been one to really pay attention to my intuition and my inner voice. My intuition has worked for me once or twice in the past but it has been wrong so many more times. I am more of a logical person so I did not even bother to listen to my intuition. This lesson wasn’t gentle to learn it was a hot, hard slap across the face. I learnt more about my gut and my gut feelings and now my intuition is working for me. It has saved me from a lot of trouble and It is rarely wrong. Always listen to your intuition, that bitch knows what’s up.

2. That my world is as big as I make it :

In the past I have made the mistake of making my world really small. I obsess over one thing and all the other aspects of my life suffer. I would make that thing my whole world, I would think about it all the time and only pay full attention to it. I would neglect all the other areas of my life. I have recently expanded my world and filled it with a little bit of everything and it is going amazing.

3. Time waits for no man :

Time is always passing, whether I take action or not. Time is always moving forward. The time passing doesn’t make time my enemy it makes it my biggest ally.

4. Procrastination makes me feel awful :

Speaking of time, let’s talk about wasting it. I have always known that procrastination does not actually make me feel great. It tricks me into thinking that I am relaxed and good when really I feel guilty all the way while procrastinating. I have just learnt to remind myself if I catch myself putting anything off.

5. Detaching myself from the outcome :

I did not even realize that I was doing this till I was crushed when the outcome of something that I worked so hard for did not match the idea in my head. I learnt that sometimes the amount of work you put in does not equate the results and that does not mean that there is something inherently wrong with you. Disappointments are a part of life and that I should not take them personally. I did this by realizing that the world does not owe me anything and I stopped feeling entitled to certain outcome because of the work I put in or for any other reason. I learnt to do my part and then let the universe do its part.

6. To Stop trying to predict the future :

This lesson caused me a lot of heartache. It messed up my life so much. I got into 2021 with goals and with a plan of how exactly I want my year to go. Some things on my goals were totally out of my control but with total faith in God I hoped that everything would come into fruition. It is obvious that things did not go exactly the way I wanted them to go and that broke my heart. I learnt to stop expecting a lot from life and to just let life unfold and trust the process.

There you have it guys, the lessons that life has recently taught me. I would love to hear from you, what are some lessons that life has recently taught you or reminded you of?? Please share them in the comments down below.

I love you guys so much♥️. Kisses 😘, till next time.