The year is not over yet. You don’t have to fold your arms and wait for the new year to start living your life. Don’t put your life on hold because there are only a few days left in the year. Besides, there are important things that you need to complete before the end of 2021 in order to properly welcome 2022.
1. Marie Condo Your Life :
During the course of this year you’ve collected a lot of people and things that simply have no place in your life. It’s time to them go. Declutter. Your life desperately needs decluttering.
From your phone to your ten thousand unopened emails to the clothes you never wear to the clothes that no longer fit you to the broken items in your home that you said you’d fix when they broke a year ago to that boyfriend who treats like you trash to that friend that only acknowledges you in their life when they need something. All of these things gotta go.
Be intentional about the things you keep you in your life and be even more intentional about the things that you bring into your life.
2. Have A Life Admin Day :
A life admin day is a day where you complete the administrative not-so-interesting things that you have been putting off. It’s a day to get caught up. You do things like making appointments, making phone calls, buying gifts, filling out paperwork, organising your space, organising files on your computer… Things like that.
For your getting caught up day I would suggest taking a look at your to-do lists and completing the things that are still relevant in those to-do lists that you haven’t completed yet.
If you have no idea what to do on this day. Here is a checklist I created :
3. Have A Cleaning Day :
Be honest, when did you last clean your house?? I mean really, thoroughly, deeply cleaned your house. Clean all the hidden corners and the places you rarely touch when doing your day to day cleaning. You can even move the furniture around and put new posters on the wall.
4. Have A Self Care Day :
Have a day where you take a sit back, put your feet on the ground and relax. Do all the fun things that you’ve always wanted to do this year but couldn’t find the time to do.
On this day, you are going to plan and schedule all the things that make you happy and that you want to do. You can have a picnic in the park, go to a museum, go to a spa, go get your nails did and your hair did or have a nice chilled indoor day with a good book or a movie or series.
5. Reflect On 2021 :
Review 2021, how was it??
You all know I love a good reflection so of course I am going to do a deep dive on it. For now, take out your journal and look back on the year.
Describe how it was and what made it that way. Write down things that surprised you, the lessons you learnt and the things you regret.
6. Create Music Playlists :
Create different playlists for different occasions. Create a playlist for when you want to cry, for when you want to dance, a workout playlist and for when you feel happy.
7. Set Intentions For 2022 :
The year is approaching and it’s time to start planning for it. How do you want your 2022 to be like??
Set an intention for the year ahead and a consistent theme for the year.
8. Create Lists For The Things You Want To Do In 2022 :
- Books you want to read.
- Recipes you want to try.
- Songs you want to learn.
- Movies you want to watch.
- Netflix shows you want to watch.
- Skills you want to learn.
- Places you want to go to.
- Blog posts you want to write.
9. Set 2022 Goals :
After you have your intentions for 2022 and the theme you want to have in 2022 it’s time to get into the specifics and set goals for 2022. I mean for your life in the year ahead. Taking into consideration the different aspects of your life like health, finances, relationships and so forth.
10. Create A Vision Board :
A vision board is a visual representation of your goals. You put pictures of the things that you want to achieve on a board and hang the board some place you’ll see constantly and bam!
I’m more of a dream book gal than a vision board one but one of my favourite Youtubers is a vision board person. Amber Scholl, if you love vision boards you should watch her vision board videos. She makes them at the beginning of every year and I love them.
Enjoy the rest of the year, take things easy and slow. Be gentle on yourself and take care of your mental health. Stay amazing and curious. I love you.
Planning what you want to do and what to achieve it’s nice but there are people out there who gave up on planning so they just go with the flow of what life brings and somehow you can’t blame them because they never achieve what they plan so they just do what’s best for the situation they are in…
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Hey Tsepo, how was your Christmas??
Nobody should give up on planning on how they want their lives to be. Planning gives you a lot of power in your life. Sure there are some things that are totally out of our control but it’s good to stay on top of the things that we can control. Instead of them giving up, what they need to do is look at why things didn’t work out and try to correct that.
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You absolutely right 💯 dear friend and giving up is no solution…The Christmas was so joyous and wonderful as it should be more especially because there is no lockdowns and we are not panicking anymore, Christmas is all about family and friends so how was yours?
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I’m so glad you enjoyed your Christmas. Mine was awful, I felt extremely sick on Christmas and the days after but I feel better now.
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Eish sorry for getting sick but so glad you now feeling better and hope your family was taking good care of you but surely you will start new year with a bang and pray on your new year resolutions…do you really believe in new year resolutions?
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Thank you and yes my sister took great care of me.
Do I believe in new year’s resolution?? That’s a loaded question.
My answer is yes and no. I do believe that the new year gives you a fresh start or at least the feeling that you have a fresh start. However you can make resolutions anytime and you can get a fresh start anyday. It doesn’t have to be the new year.
How about you… Do you believe in new year resolutions??
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Ohh! You so lucky to have such sister, that’s what family is all about. I don’t do new year resolutions because in my experience most of them never happen so what I do is assess the situation I’m in then do what’s best for me and that has worked for me over the past years. This year there are great things I have achieved that I never thought I would so for you which are your highlights for this year?
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This year was great.I grew and evolved so much. My grades were off the roof, they were pretty high and I worked extremely hard at school. I befriended a lot of people and I made a lot of friends. I made studying fun last year. I won stationary and school bags and a tablet on competitions. I worked out almost daily. I tried a lot of healthy foods that I have never eaten before. I got back into reading.
What were your highlights for last year?? What made your year great??
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Thanks…it is clear that you had wonderful year full of achievements and winnings also habiting to read is tough if you not used to it but you did it. For me last year was also good and the highlight was participating in digital marketing learnership because I learnt a lot there even business wise. What were you studying and this year are you also in studies?
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I am actually a highschool student. This year is my senior year.
I chose Life Sciences, Geography and Physical Sciences as my subjects. Then on top of that the mandatory subjects, English, Xhosa, Mathematics and Life Orientation.
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Ayeye! Matric Ayeye!…congrats! Subjects you chose have lots of opportunities but requires someone who is self motivated and hard working which you are. After matric what are you going to do?
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Thank you so much, I try my best.
After matric I want to study psychology. I want to be a research psychologist.
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Nice one… great career choice. When do schools open that side?
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Thanks…on the 19th.
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That’s nice… for others tomorrow ZAKHALA!
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Digital marketing sounds interesting, would you mind sharing a bit of knowledge from the learnership that you think I might benefit from??
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In this learnership we learned about thin
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In this learnership we learned about website optimization, SEO etc but I think the most important thing is knowing using social media to market your business because it is cost efficient and effective. If you want to start a business I think this course will be very useful. Do you have any interest in business?
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Yes, yes I do.
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Am interested in what business you would venture in…as for me I do business all the way babyyyyy!!!!. If you had a business that is little bit slow then you are offered a job that is stressful to you what would you but pay well, what would you do?
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I would do both. The job would help me feel secure and it would fund my business.
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Yeah… some business needs you there full time.
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I don’t know… Putting all my eggs in one basket just drives me up the wall. I like doing a bit of everything so I don’t fancy the idea of working on a business full time and only doing that.
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Yeah! Makes lot of sense…Thanks ♥️ 🤣🤣🤣
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Ohhh and I do make new year’s resolutions every year… So that’s my take on that.
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Lovely things to do before the year runs out to set the tone for the next year. These are really great points.
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Thank you so much Nianni!!
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