If you are facing a huge difficulty right now, instead of seeing it as a challenge in your path. See it as an unresolved question.

Rainer Maria Rilke said it best :

…have patience with everything that remains in your heart. Try to love the questions themselves, like locked rooms and like books written in a foreign language. Do not now look for the answers. They cannot now be given to you because you could not live them. It is a question of experiencing everything. At present, you need to live the question. Perhaps you will gradually, without even noticing it, find yourself experiencing the answer, some distant day.”

Life is one big question. We get the answers by living.